Restore Hope for the Boy Child Initiative (RHBCI) has raised concern over harmful societal expectations placed on male children, warning that such stereotypes can cause emotional, mental, and physical harm.
Speaking at a news conference in Abuja to mark the 2025 International Day of the Boy Child, Dr Babatunde Kayode, Executive Director of RHBCI, said these unrealistic standards could prevent boys from reaching their full potential.
“Boys globally encounter various obstacles, including struggles with societal expectations, leading to mental health concerns,” he said. “They are vulnerable to violence, exploitation, and abuse, and most times have limited access to quality education.”
Kayode noted that issues affecting the boy child are often overlooked by families, society, and government, contributing to rising cases of juvenile delinquency, low self-esteem, aggression, and other negative behaviours.
He called for deliberate efforts to promote boys’ education, health, and overall development, and stressed the importance of positive role models and mentors in shaping their lives.
“By providing boys with inspiring and supportive figures, they can be empowered to grow into confident, compassionate, and responsible individuals,” he said.
John Samuel, a junior secondary school student, urged stakeholders to educate the public about the psychological harm caused by excessive pressure on boys to succeed.
“Most times, family members put so much pressure on the need for the male child to be successful, irrespective of the person’s intellectual ability,” he said. “This has forced a lot of young people into fraudulent activities like scamming and robbery.”
Favour Emmanuel, another student, emphasised the importance of allowing boys to express their emotions without ridicule.
“Even when one is hurt and cries, people laugh and mock instead of offering support,” he said.
The International Day of the Boy Child is observed annually on 16 May to advocate for the wellbeing of male children and recognise their role in families and communities.
Events marking the day included an awareness rally, distribution of educational fliers, and a lecture on bullying and school-based violence held at Federal Government Boys College, Apo.
(NAN)